Rita: I was afraid to ask my mom’s doctor questions because I didn’t want to upset Dr Thomas and I was also afraid of getting answers that I didn’t want to hear. But, when I told Dr Thomas at the start of the visit that I had questions, even though he was very busy, he answered all of them.

Some of his answers weren’t what I was hoping to hear, but having more information made me understand what was going on with my mom. And knowing more made me worry less.

Helen: I believe that God will direct my doctor and tell her what needs to be done for me. But, I ask my doctor questions anyway. Knowing about the risks and the other options I have for treatment as well as what my life will be like after the treatment, has made it easier for me to pray for my doctor. Now I know what to pray about.

Ken: I know my doctor is busy AND I have a lot of medical problems and take so many pills. I was afraid to take up more of my doctor’s time with all my questions. Plus, I was afraid he would think that I didn’t trust him. But, he did make the time for my questions and I felt a lot better.

Dr Thomas: Yes, I was glad Ken started our visit by telling me he had questions. That way I made sure to fit them in. Sure, doctors are busy, but it is our job to inform our patients. Don’t be afraid to speak up and ask questions so you can make the decisions that are right for you.